Co-Parenting Companion
We help separated parents co-parent effectively, minimising stress and maximising freedom, so you can co-parent with relaxed confidence, focused on enjoying your children and building your new life.
Separation is in no way uncommon, and yet perhaps you find yourself lost, lonely, isolated and confused. Maybe the relationship ended for excellent reasons. Maybe you didn’t see it coming. Likely, even if it was the very right thing, you find yourself overwhelmed by how horrible and harrowing the separation process can be.
You might wonder:
● Can this ever evolve into a good co-parenting relationship?
● How do we get past all the horrible stuff that’s happened?
● How do I ever get to a space when I actually want to communicate with my co-parent?
● How come I’m the only one doing all the hard work?
You want to co-parent well for the sake of your kids.
But where on earth is the energy for that supposed to come from?
It’s not easy to be child focused and forward-looking when the past was so hurtful. You’re likely still grieving or feeling betrayed. Maybe you want to move on, but it’s just so hard to know how.
There are days you feel you’ve lost everything – even yourself.
No part of your life feels untouched.
Does this sound like you?
- Working longer hours and seeing less of your kids just trying to balance the budget.
- Frightened of ending up in an adversarial legal battle that focuses on a blame game,
leaving no one wealthy other than the lawyers. - Worried about how your children will adjust and what the right balance is for kids who
now live across two homes. - Immobilised by thoughts that you’ll never be “good enough”.
Establishing a good co-parenting relationship may feel pretty much impossible. You might not even feel like doing it at all some days. This was never the dream.
What if I tell you that your future can look like:
- You being confident and co-parenting with the best interests of your kids as your clearest priority.
- Feeling like a “better parent” because your stress levels are lower and you have more time and energy to be the kind of parent you care to be.
- A warm and secure connection to your kids. Even when they have their tricky moments or ask hard questions about your separation, you’re calm and confident when to them.
- Important family experiences (like weekend soccer games and birthday parties) being amicable. Heck, you and your co-parent might even sit together and share how proud you are of the kids you’re raising!
- You are clear in the boundaries you hold.
- Your children never being caught between the two of you. They see both of you as a secure, supportive base.
I completely believe that this can be your future. Even if you’re the only
one investing in the work right now.
Testimonial
Hi, I’m Tiffany
I am fierce about nurturing families so that children can thrive and parents can enjoy lives full of richness and connection with the people they care for the most.
I have seen too many parents exhausted and worn down by the struggles of navigating the early pathways of separation, with well-meaning friends often giving poor advice. Parents who had to make choices about spending money on legal fees instead of holidays and adventures with their kids.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
With two decades of experience supporting separated parents in collaborative co-parenting, I know that separation does not have to be a barrier to creating and sustaining a healthy co-parenting relationship – because I’ve repeatedly guided co-parents to that outcome.
Now is your time to move forward with confidence. You can set, hold and enjoy healthy boundaries with your co-parent – collaborating when you need to and having freedom from each other when you don’t.
Learn how to problem-solve and negotiate successfully so your children can thrive in their relationships with each of you, seamlessly transitioning from your care to your co-parent’s care and back again.
As your coach, I can help you:
● Set and keep healthy boundaries so that 98% of your life does not involve thinking about your co-parent. Imagine having the mental space to take on new projects and hobbies that create the life you want to be living.
● Find easy ways to soothe yourself when your co-parent’s communication leaves you feeling wounded, stressed or angry so that you can release the emotional pain, connect back with the person you care to be, use shortcuts to de-escalate conflict and reach winnable solutions.
● Predict and plan for the trickier moments in your co-parenting calendar to reduce stress and increase your capacity to be fully present and engaged with your kids at the moments that matter most.
● Develop a child-focused Parenting Agreement, along with the skills for making it succeed without needing the threat of legal action.
● Develop action plans for successfully attending shared events, such as birthday parties and school performances.
● Have difficult conversations with your children, family, friends and co-parent.
● Work out what is developmentally normal for your child and signs they are struggling or at risk.
● Connect with other co-parents who share your vision and intention of having a healthy co-parenting dynamic after separation.
Explore How We Can Work Together
How do we tell the kids?
You and your partner have made the most difficult decision of your life, and now you want to make sure that you guide your children through this transition with grace and care. If you’re uncertain about the what, where, when, and how of breaking the news, our specialised consultation will provide you with guidance and clarity.
In this session with Tiffany, we’ll explore your personal circumstances and help you both develop an action plan for how and when to navigate this sensitive process.
Signature Program: Co-parenting INTENSIVE RESET
Helping you be the best co-parent you can be, even if your co-parent never changes.
With 6 hours of video and over 40 immersive lessons our Intensive Reset is your best place to start. Grounded in the science of human behaviour, combined with Tiffany’s twenty years of service to families in transition, this is our most affordable and accessible program to help you make the transition to relaxed, confident co-parenting.
Get ready to embark on an extraordinary path of personal growth and compassionate co-parenting that will leave a lasting legacy.
Collaborative Coaching
You and your co-parent both want the same thing: kids that are thriving and healthy. But you have different ideas or perspectives on how to get there, and finding your way to a solution is not something the two of you do well together on your own.
Our Collaborative Coaching provides the expertise to bridge the gap. Avoid the pitfalls of costly legal battles and mediation by choosing a child-focused approach, working with an expert in child development, family systems and human behaviour.